Join date: Jun 2013
Location: Mississippi, USA
Nah, Em never said she'd show anything; just that she dresses to minimize her curviness.
Because male sexual aggression frightens me and I don't seek to encourage it outside of the context of a committed relationship. When I dress with reasonable modestly (though I'm no Amish woman) men treat me differently. I am already regretting having posted the pic, which I really had not recognized as being so breast-y when I cropped it ( was little on my screen). The tone of some of the posters is different as a resule. People I don't respect treating me with a decided lack of respect.
Just a matter of preference. I have enough to offer, I feel, that my body can come as a happy surprise to the select men with whom I choose to share it. This is the pic Chushion was referring to when he offered that he didn't see curves - I spend most of my time dressed something like this:
99% of the time you just have to say no.
Hell, 99% of the time they are more scared of you than you of them.
Overwhelms might be a better word than frightens. Mostly I just don't want to deal with it. I want men who want women like me, that's all. The way I dress and carry myself broadcast that I'm not casual and getting to know me won't be quick. The ones who want another type of woman should have that. I feel safest and best in a long term relationship, where I can relax my guard and feel free to express affection without inhibition.
Luckily, many men seem to feel as I do and they don't seem scared of me at all.
There is a lot of truth to this. The way a woman dresses directly correlates to what type of attention she is going to attract. Not sure all of them realize that however. My wife dresses fairly modestly most of the time, especially by todays standards. Something I have noticed is, the frenzy she can send me into when she decides to go for that sexy look (not slutty, but sexy) is much greater than if I was constantly bombarded by her "assets". I like feeling that frenzy.
Relevant quote for those unwilling to read the whole article:
Real women are complex, sentient, articulate, intelligent creatures. Real women have mystery, and tend not to post selfies. A real woman's sexuality is but a facet of their personality, which has the added benefit of making them even more desirable. A real woman reveals herself slowly, and makes you want to know more of her, rather than constantly making herself known. Real women use their tongues to say things worth listening to.