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jbpick86
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EmilyQ wrote:
orion wrote:
EmilyQ wrote:
orion wrote:
Chushin wrote:


Nah, Em never said she'd show anything; just that she dresses to minimize her curviness.


Why?


Because male sexual aggression frightens me and I don't seek to encourage it outside of the context of a committed relationship. When I dress with reasonable modestly (though I'm no Amish woman) men treat me differently. I am already regretting having posted the pic, which I really had not recognized as being so breast-y when I cropped it ( was little on my screen). The tone of some of the posters is different as a resule. People I don't respect treating me with a decided lack of respect.

Just a matter of preference. I have enough to offer, I feel, that my body can come as a happy surprise to the select men with whom I choose to share it. This is the pic Chushion was referring to when he offered that he didn't see curves - I spend most of my time dressed something like this:




Frightens you?

99% of the time you just have to say no.

Hell, 99% of the time they are more scared of you than you of them.

No kidding.

Unfortunately.



Overwhelms might be a better word than frightens. Mostly I just don't want to deal with it. I want men who want women like me, that's all. The way I dress and carry myself broadcast that I'm not casual and getting to know me won't be quick. The ones who want another type of woman should have that. I feel safest and best in a long term relationship, where I can relax my guard and feel free to express affection without inhibition.

Luckily, many men seem to feel as I do and they don't seem scared of me at all.


There is a lot of truth to this. The way a woman dresses directly correlates to what type of attention she is going to attract. Not sure all of them realize that however. My wife dresses fairly modestly most of the time, especially by todays standards. Something I have noticed is, the frenzy she can send me into when she decides to go for that sexy look (not slutty, but sexy) is much greater than if I was constantly bombarded by her "assets". I like feeling that frenzy.

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pushharder wrote:
This article reminded me a bit of where this conversation has gone.


http://dailycaller.com/...-of-real-women/


Relevant quote for those unwilling to read the whole article:

Real women are complex, sentient, articulate, intelligent creatures. Real women have mystery, and tend not to post selfies. A real woman's sexuality is but a facet of their personality, which has the added benefit of making them even more desirable. A real woman reveals herself slowly, and makes you want to know more of her, rather than constantly making herself known. Real women use their tongues to say things worth listening to.

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EmilyQ
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pushharder wrote:
The chick at the beginning of this video reminds me of you, Em, and sooooooooooooooo this song's for you, babe:






Just imagine me singing this to you.


Push, from a long time ago - what I wanted to say was this:

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pushharder
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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
The chick at the beginning of this video reminds me of you, Em, and sooooooooooooooo this song's for you, babe:






Just imagine me singing this to you.[/quote]

Push, from a long time ago - what I wanted to say was this:





Em, that was precious. Whoda thunk that the Partridge Family, of all things, would be the catalyst to bring two T-Nationeers together?


























Susan Dey aka Laurie Partridge still gives me boner.

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[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
The chick at the beginning of this video reminds me of you, Em, and sooooooooooooooo this song's for you, babe:






Just imagine me singing this to you.[/quote]

Push, from a long time ago - what I wanted to say was this:





Em, that was precious. Whoda thunk that the Partridge Family, of all things, would be the catalyst to bring two T-Nationeers together?


























Susan Dey aka Laurie Partridge still gives me boner.
[/quote]

For me its Maureen McCormick. A little old for me but I would still do her if given the chance. Ohhhh Marcia, Marcia, Marcia!

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GivehertheD
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So did he get proof that she's fucking the boss?

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dailybread
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I thought the same thing at one time about texting. I did some digging and found that things weren't as they appeared to be. Then I felt guilty for doing that.

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dailybread
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I just read these posts and now I have to go back and rewrite my paper for class. I know for a fact at least one of you got it all wrong.

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EmilyQ
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dailybread wrote:
I just read these posts and now I have to go back and rewrite my paper for class. I know for a fact at least one of you got it all wrong.


OMG, was it me???

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EmilyQ
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In scrolling back to see who got what wrong, I realized that this is the thread where I posted my armpit injury and lack of development. Update: injury recovered, working on strength-building!

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dailybread
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No, it was not you Emily. After reading more I also saw where this is an old thread. I hope that it all got worked out.

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on edge
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EmilyQ wrote:
In scrolling back to see who got what wrong, I realized that this is the thread where I posted my armpit injury and lack of development. Update: injury recovered, working on strength-building!



Don't we we need an update from TR to know who whiffed and who hit nail on head?

We always get left hanging on these threads.

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on edge wrote:
EmilyQ wrote:
In scrolling back to see who got what wrong, I realized that this is the thread where I posted my armpit injury and lack of development. Update: injury recovered, working on strength-building!



Don't we we need an update from TR to know who whiffed and who hit nail on head?

We always get left hanging on these threads.


Or we all fell for nth degree trolling....

Rob

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on edge
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beachguy498 wrote:
on edge wrote:
EmilyQ wrote:
In scrolling back to see who got what wrong, I realized that this is the thread where I posted my armpit injury and lack of development. Update: injury recovered, working on strength-building!



Don't we we need an update from TR to know who whiffed and who hit nail on head?

We always get left hanging on these threads.




Or we all fell for nth degree trolling....

Rob


It would be so funny if the guy just made the whole thing up and randomly picked some real dude off Linkedin to be the other guy. With all the search options on Linkedin it would be so easy to find someone who fit the profile you were creating.

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dailybread wrote:
No, it was not you Emily. After reading more I also saw where this is an old thread. I hope that it all got worked out.


So you created a profile to post three times in this thread?


Are you the OP, wife, or boss?

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